Hello and welcome to the first article of "Secrets to your Personal and Business Success" on the blog of Charles Judge. In today's article you'll learn why you must accept and recruiter live as responsible for what happens in your life. "You are 100 responsible for what happens in your life" You recruiting see, as humans have a defect that may be one job search of the most dangerous and this is the belief that there are things that have happened by coincidence, bad luck, or because these are the cards that we had to play the game. This thought is immediately fatal because "us out" to us of the film and immediately blame for our failure or just that thing go as planned is destiny, God, horoscopes, our parents, our teachers ... etc. The reality is quite different ... You and I are 100 responsible for what happens to us, for the success or failure, joy or sorrow, prosperity or the shortage we are experiencing at this time. It's true, maybe your parents or teachers as kids have not learned properly influence on you, it's even understandable to feel that if you're not happy or prosperous enough not your fault. I also thought so ever. But you know what ... I was happier not thinking well, I had no money, I was more ready and ran with better luck, that is, nothing changes in thinking that way. It was only when I realized that if I kept blaming others sales jobs for my misfortunes never come out of the hole where I was, but only when he started me would be solely responsible for what happened in my life. Everything changed for the better. I began to notice that blame my parents, teachers, friends, enemies or even the weather that something went wrong, I put in a tremendous disadvantage: I could not do anything about it. And if you have 8 years or more, agree with me that this is true. When others are at fault you're just a miserable victim of 'circumstances. The terrible thing is that while the circumstances do not change will remain a victim. Not someone who makes things happen, but just someone to whom everything happens. You're just a spectator of the tragedy of your life where you alone are happening also the protagonist. one of the most respected names in the corporate world is a senior client partner at the executive search firm Korn/Ferry International Look at it this way, for something done right (even your economic power, your success in business or marriage) holding the thought that your happiness depends on the rest, too many things you should be able to control: the market, the character of your wife, your children, your parents, the global economy, natural disasters, diseases ... Should I go ... On the other hand, when you realize that you're responsible for everything that happens you just take charge of only one thing: you. Obviously recruiting you can not stop a hurricane, change the character recruitment of your wife or to stabilize the global economy, but you can ensure that none of this affects you.If a hurricane causes you problems of economic nature for example, now is when you should take responsibility for that and - for example - create multiple sources of income, or as they say colloquially, "not putting all your eggs in one basket". If the character of your wife cause you some discomfort, hurts, and so on. not going to solve it by confronting it and wanting to change, as simple (but no selfish person does) is to change yourself, try to understand it, see that what she does, say, or not do not get to you Become you responsible for your happiness.